sunnybcnes:

synensis:

UH, SUNNY

I AM AFRAID TO ASK.

WHAT IS BDSM

I FEEL LIKE I SHOULDN’T BE THE ONE ANSWERING THIS BUT IT’S BETTER FOR SOMEONE TO INFORM YOU WITH GOOD INTENTIONS RATHER THAN MISLEAD YOU BECAUSE THAT’S PRETTY MUCH HOW FIFTY SHADES HAPPENED IN THE FIRST PLACE

IT STANDS FOR… WELL IT STANDS FOR A FEW THINGS BUT THE BASIC GIST OF IT IS IT’S A SEXUAL THING WHERE PEOPLE CONSENT TO ROLEPLAYING SCENARIOS WITH PARTICULAR POWER DYNAMICS, LIKE ONE PERSON BEING TIED UP OR BEING COMPLETELY SUBMISSIVE TO SOMEONE ELSE

THE IMPORTANT THING IS IT’S EXPLICITLY AGREED UPON AND CONSIDERED SUPER IMPORTANT FOR EVERYONE INVOLVED TO KNOW IT’S ROLEPLAY AND NOT REAL AND FOR PEOPLE TO GET PROPER CARE AFTERWARDS

BUT THAT’S NOT IN FIFTY SHADES BECAUSE IT’S FUCKING GARBAGE!!!

…………… AH;;;;;,,